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wow this is interesting. i will mark it as quote of the day.
if i can choose, i still prefer long legged blonde. iq? i don't care.
somebody is saying appearance will go away, and iq always stays. well it's even worse and i will stick to my vote
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well. . .the point i am trying to get across is that neither appearance or iq is the issue.
you have to look into the eyes of the gal you want to mess with and see what is there.
it doesn't matter what she looks like--cute is fun--but in the end it's what is behind that--unless appearance is all that matters to one.
as far as aging--again it is specific to the gal. if you like great sex you will find often that it's not the cutest girl in the room who is the best in bed. if you like smarts often it is not the highest iq who thinks the best. in other words my point is to look behind what you are buying into--aging is very hard to do for both men and women--and it takes a very unusual person to continue to change in a fluid manner past the age of even 15-20 much less 45-60. i place huge value on this because i am 58--and even though it sounds crazy--the first 40-50 years are just set up for the last 40-50 years. so from where i sit the ideal place to peak is about 70-75 not 35-45.
in the context i was trying to speak about eg learning trading--it's about how good they trade over time--and how simple and natural their approach is.
i was not really trying to target your desired woman--but the tendency on this board of people to focus on that to the exclusion of the other stuff. eg what they can learn as opposed to the idea of surface appearance. As you move from the mundane to the exceptional--in all humans--the importance shift--because there is more to offer--and the whole thing gets judged slightly differently (like the difference between a lear jet and a pick up truck).
good luck both with the trades and the blonds