LONDONBOYZ09 wrote:Hi Cobra,
I have been a great follower of you since last few months and I simply love the forum, your site, your daily reports and most importantly your intra-day signals.
I have made some huge losses and was put off. Since I have been following you, I have learnt the first thing advocated by you - (Survive first, if you don't make money, don't loose money) and I am happy to say though I have not made any, but more importantly I have not lost any.
Now I am starting to work on the other point you advocated - don't rush and control emotions (Not sure how long will that take!). A while back someone did a nice commentry on controlling emotions in trading.
It would have been very disrespectful to not login and say 'Happy Thanksgiving' to you and all the other Forum Memebers, who provide such an insightful commentry and charts. I wish I could rub shoulders with them one day (may be after few more thanksgiving anniversaries).
Happy Thanksgiving all and really appreciate such a selfless, hard work from you all and especially Cobra.
PS: I have registered for regular donation few days back and hope don't need to do anything after the server move. Good Luck with that.
What number on SPY will make you change your avtar

"don't rush and control emotions" (Not sure how long will that take!)
this idea about controlling emotions can lead to sorrow. consider 2 points (1) the logical mind is like a small raft in the ocean of "emotion". (2) if this doesn't appeal to you consider that most people estimate the mind you are aware of is maybe 5-10% of brain and cns function. (note the mind--a construct and brain the organ)
so if something is larger than you how do you "win" for starters you admit it--and then start to watch it's patterns. think of this like hunting. the working assumption is you cannot actually see your habits they are like the blind spot in your life. however it's possible to see the action around them--and thus by subtraction see a rough outline of the habits.
this is about as close as we get to control ourselves.
just my opinion but i would do 2-3 things--first if you are intra day trading futs read al brooks--being forced to look at 200 charts with more or less the same message will teach very quickly. second forget trading for money for a while--get money out of the picture--and focus on paper trading. get to the point where you are hitting 7 out of 10 trades in whatever timeframe or method you use. Third keep track of these trades-- prior to getting in--after you get out--and tracking what you may see as emotion pre during and after the trade.
after that scale up to tiny amounts of money--then build up slowly.
most people refuse to do this under the assumption that they are not really trading--but seals train for some time prior to going to the field and they scrape by. second you may think this is the slow way--i assure you it's much faster in the longer run.
get a clear rule set--and then look carefully at the beginning emotions and feelings can be a problem--later (usually much later) you can trade intuitively.